Wednesday, March 23, 2011

Good Thinking

Another forwarded email, So true indeed :

Good Thinking
A short walk is so difficult
when no one walks with you
But a long journey is just like few steps
when you walk with someone
who loves and cares for you.

We always look and care for the person
whom we love the most
But we fail to look back at those
who love us the most.

Death's not the greatest loss in life...
The greatest loss is when
relationships die inside us while
we are still alive...

Life is not about the people
who act true to your face...
Its about the people who
remain true behind your back...

Time decides whom you meet in life...
Your heart decides whom you want in life...
but your behaviour decideswho will stay in your life...

You can win all things in life
if you simply avoid two things...
1. Comparing - with others
2. Expecting - from others
Life will be more beautiful!!

Monday, March 21, 2011

Mini stories - the quake that shook Japan

Read from forwarded email and would like to share with all of you.

Lots to learn from and ponder of :

Blood donations - Japan is strong! At Osaka I saw a LONG line of people waiting to give blood at the blood donation center. This is the first time I have seen such a queue of selfless people waiting patiently in line just to give. It was a moving sight! To everyone in the hard-hit areas, we your countrymen accept your suffering as our own and we share in your grief. Do not give up! Stay strong!

Station staff - I said to a Tokyometro station staff who was on all-night duty, “I’m sure it has been a tough night for you. Thank you.” He responded with a smile, “On a night like this, gladly!” I was touched. On the platformThe Oedo Subway Line for Hikarigaoka is very congested. On the platform and at the gate there are just crowds and crowds of people waiting for the train. But in all the confusion, every last person is neatly lined up waiting his or her turn while managing to keep a passage of space open for staff and people going the other way. Everyone is listening to the instructions from the staff and everyone acts accordingly. And amazingly … there isn’t even a rope or anything in sight to keep people in queue or open space for staff to pass, they just do! I am so impressed at this almost unnatural orderliness! I have nothing but praise for these people!

A strong Japan - Suntory Beverages has set up free vending machines. Softbank Telephone services is offering free Wifi spots. Everyone in Japan is putting everything they can into helping one another. Japan is also now receiving aid from abroad. Compared to the Kobe earthquake, when Japan took too long to contemplate accepting foreign aid or dispatching the self-defense force to join the rescue effort, Japan has definitely grown into a far stronger nation. Be strong, everyone!

All of us” - I spoke with an old taxi driver and some elderly staff at the train stations. All of them had been working non-stop and had not been able to go home for a long time. They were visibly very tired, but never once did they show any sign of impatience; they were gentle and very caring. They told me “… because all of us are in this together.” I was touched at what the notion of “all of us” meant to these elderly people. It is a value I will treasure and carry on to my generation.

At the supermarket - I just came back safely from the supermarket! Man, I was so touched at how everyone there was mindful of others, buying only as much as they needed and leaving the rest for the people behind them.

Japan is a wonderful nation! - Both the government and the people, everyone is helping one another today. There are truck drivers helping evacuees move. I even heard that the “yakuza” (gangsters, organized crime groups) are helping to direct traffic in the Tohoku region! There have been many recent developments that have made me lose my sense of pride in my country, but not anymore. Japan is an amazing place! I’m just simply touched. Go Japan!

The bakery lady - There was a small bread shop on the street I take to go to school. It has long been out of business. But last night, I saw the old lady of the shop giving people her handmade bread for free. It was a heart-warming sight. She, like everyone else, was doing what she could to help people in a time of need. Tokyo isn’t that bad afterall!

A little story about Papa - We live in an area that was not directly hit. When my father came downstairs and heard the news saying that our area had begun allocating electricity to the hard-hit areas, he quietly led by example, turning off the power around the house and pulling the plugs out of their sockets. I was touched. He usually NEVER turns off the lights or the AC or the TV or anything!

BBC Reports - The words of BBC’s reports are so moving they make me cry. They were praising us with words of admiration! “One of the worst earthquakes in recorded history has hit the world’s most well-prepared, well-trained nations. The strength of its government and its people are put to the test. While there have been casualties, in no other country could the government and the people have worked together in such an accurate and coordinated way in the face of such tragedy. The Japanese people have shown their cultural ability to remain calm in the face of adversity.”

What foreigners are saying about Japanese people - At a supermarket where everything was scattered everywhere over the floors, shoppers were helping pick them up and putting them back neatly on the shelves before quietly moving into line to wait to pay for them. On the totally jam-packed first train after the quake, an elderly man gave up his seat for a pregnant woman. Foreigners have told me they are amazed witnessing sights like these. I do believe they actually saw what they said they saw. Japan is truly amazing.

Card board boxes, Thank you! - It was cold and I was getting very weary waiting forever for the train to come. Some homeless people saw me, gave me some of their own cardboard boxes and saying “you’ll be warmer if you sit on these!” I have always walked by homeless people pretending I didn’t see them, and yet here they were offering me warmth. Such warm people.

Thank you Tokyo Disney Sea - My daughter who was staying at DisneySea just made it back home! Many, many thanks to the staff who worked very hard in the cold with ready smiles that made her to feel safe and secure during the entire night. They brought her food, drinks, snacks, heating pads, and anything necessary to ensure she was comfortable and secure throughout her stay. I was touched by the Disney staff’s warmth and hospitality. Thank you so much!

At a congested downtown intersection … - Cars were moving at the rate of maybe one every green light, but everyone was letting each other go first with a warm look and a smile. At a complicated intersection, the traffic was at a complete standstill for 5 minutes, but I listened for 10 minutes and didn’t hear a single beep or honk except for an occasional one thanking someone for giving way. It was a terrifying day, but scenes like this warmed me and made me love my country even more.

At Tokyo Disneyland - Tokyo Disneyland was handing out its shops’ food and drinks for free to the stranded people nearby. I saw a bunch of snobby looking highschool girls walking away with large portions of it and initially though “What the …” But I later I found out they were taking them to the families with little children at emergency evacuation areas. Very perceptive of them, and a very kind thing to do indeed.

Thursday, August 5, 2010

Complicated Relationship

Recently have been pounding with many questions on complicated relationship eg. Lesbian; Gay; Butch etc…. I guess such unique relationship can’t be avoided or control when LOVE is exist. Moreover it takes two hands to clap to make it happen and as long as there is feelings.
Why girl like girl? Boy like boy?......I also don’t really know but I think is still the “LOVE” thingy that’s play a part and probably they are born with such unique genes. There is no right or wrong and I do respect their decision as long as they are happy together. I believe such relationships have less quarrel than those normal ones. Most of us will comment it is so wasted, the man is so handsome and the girl is so pretty. How come ended in Gay & Lesbian relationship? How come? I guess only when we are in their relationship then we will know how come.
Anyway in this current generation, not all normal marriages will end up happy or last forever as compared to my parents’ and older generation. The older generations are so loyal to each other, so lovy dovy even thou they are old, holding on to each other hands and looking after each other where ever they go. I just so envy them. So sweet and lovely site sometimes.
As for me, I am happy with my current single parent relationship with my son. No curfews, no reports, freedom, less worries, less headache and more. Everyone is different, each of us have our own perception and what we want for our life. Happy lo ho......lox.
Remember to spend time with your love ones, do not wait until it is too late. Work towards your goal and don’t over stress yourself. Always remember to take a break. Don’t over spend what you have earned and save enough for the worst. Be contented and take it easy. If you ask for more than you can afford then you are asking for trouble for yourself. Wow I talk as if I am an expert….wahaha...thanks for reading.......cheers

Saturday, July 3, 2010

CheeseCake Ice cream with Marshmallow and Mango Sorbet wtih M&M Choc.
Yummy and chewy, luckily it was not so creamy otherwise it will be quite sinful.
@$6.50/reg cup with $1/per topping.
Cold Rock Ice Creamy

Saturday, April 24, 2010

Food Sampling at Melvados

Yes! Ice cream, Soebeti, Yogurt. Price btw $7 - $9.50 per pint.
I had tried all and love their Mango/Durian/Forestberry/Cookie and Cream.

Food Sampling at Melvados Contd.....

If you have sweet tooth and also love Durian, you would love these 2 items.
D24 tray cake($30) which is their new products yummy yummy! and Mango Mousse tray cake($26).

I love their Black and White brownie($25-Dark & White Choc) too but can't find the pic, will update if I got 1.

Food Sampling at Melvados and more.....

Their Sundried Tomato Pesto taste good with bread ($5.50/250g).
If heat up before you eat will be even more tasty. Siok!!
Didn't try the soups and sauces but it look good.
Quite X abt $11.50 for 5 small tubs.
They provides delivery to anywhere. Visit their Website : www.melvados.com for more info.